Wednesday, October 12, 2011

D I L

Acronym as per Oxford Dictionary means - a word formed from the first letters of other words. That would mean Daughter in law would be Dil. DIL is Hindi word for heart. So how come more often than not a daughter in law is not treated as DIL of a family? My thinking is that as we take care of our HEART to keep our body healthy, why should we not take care of DIL too to have a healthy peaceful family? Of course, she too should not function erratically.

24 comments:

Thinking said...

hmmm...very thought provoking....

I wish we all think like you...

IRFANUDDIN said...

Thoughtful one Sir ji.....

and the last sentence has got a deeper meaning of it....

Good Post.

Amrita said...

:) nice one

Being Pramoda... said...

That's extremely well thought and put uncle.. so true..;) its true.. she deserves to be treated better like heart..

Komal Ali said...

What a beautiful though, uncle Jack. :-)

I hope you're doing great.

Gayu said...

Wow!!!!!! What a thought....if only all the families would think like you...there would be so much peace and love around.

Both MIL and DIL should understand that there are going to be times when their thoughts won't match, there will be small trifts...but they should adopt an attitude of "Raat gayi Baat gayi".

They should leave the grudges and look beyond the imperfections.

I loved this thought!!!!

Gayu

☆ Rià ღ said...

How true!! Wish everyone thought that way.

A Restless Mind With A Sensitive Heart! said...

Good thought uncle Jack!

Jyoti Mishra said...

This DIL concept is very thoughtful.

Fantastic thought... this going straight to my fb wall !!

Mishi said...

Awww Jack//I wish more people could think like you..but as they say it takes two to clap! so yes both parties should give this their best efforts and above all..their honesty!

Harman said...

WAW!
well connected..
Dil and DIL..
and how abt Bill which happens to come out of erratic behaviour ..from both sides..
:)
nice one!

Shruti said...

I wish all the 'In laws' in the world reads this.. to begin with I wish my would be in laws sees this asap :-)

Celestial Dreamz said...

Such a noble thought :) wish all had felt likewise...

Jack said...

THINKING :

I also wish so and that is why I shared this. Take care


IRFANUDDIN :

As it is said you can clap with two hands. So efforts have to made from both sides. Take care


AMRITA :

Thanks. Take care


PRAMODA :

Yes. She also must be part of the family from her heart. Take care

Jack said...

KOMAL :

Thanks for appreciation. I am fine. Take care


GAYU :

Exactly, all have to keep two way logical communications lines open. Take care


RIA :

That is why I shared this.
Take care


RESTLESS :

Thanks for supportive view. Take care

Jack said...

JYOTI :

CHOR CHOR. Stealing my thoughts? But I appreciate your spreading on wider net. Take care


MISHI :

Very right. It take two to tango. Efforts have to be from both sides for making family happy and peaceful. Have you read my post in 3 parts about Happy Married Life written in Oct - Nov 2009?
Take care


HARMAN :

Thanks for appreciation. Please do read my post in 3 parts as told to Mishi above. Take care


SHRUTI :

I am sure with your attitude you will make them so happy that they will not need to read this. Do read the post I asked Mishi to read above. Take care


C D :

Thanks for appreciation. That is why I shared it. Take care

Neha said...

Great thoughts here. I am getting married next month and am proud to say that my in-laws give me all the love and pampering they give to their own daughter. In fact even she treats me with so much love and care :)

Jack said...

NEHA :

Congratulations. What date is it? Will I be lucky to be there for this? We complete 40 years next month. You are lucky to have such family.

Take care

Sonshu said...

Hahaha, once again a brilliant thought.

How the DILs wish that they were the DIL.

But maybe there is hope for change in scenario.

Jack said...

SONSHU :

I too hope and pray for change in scenario. And it has to be two way traffic. Take care

♪♪Happy Go Lucky♪♪ said...

So true.
I've always wondered why they MIL and DIL don't get along.
But then again, its not only because the family doesn't want to accept her as their own, its also cos she wouldn't be ready to accept the family as hers.

Jack said...

H G L :

You are right. It takes two to tango. She too has to reciprocate and accept new family as her own. Take care

Shruti said...

I read it. awesome!

Jack, I have something for you on my page :)

Jack said...

SHRUTI :

Thanks a lot. Being not very savvy on computers I may not be able to display it. I will try to do the rest needful a s a p. Thanks again.

Take care

PS : I will be visiting you soon to read the pending posts.