I have known a young girl in blogspace for about a year. She has sent me a mail seeking my advice. I am appending her mail below and request you to tell me what should I say.
" I am writing this to seek your advice.
I am 22 years old girl. I do not have any sibling. My parents are very strict. They did not allow me to have friendship with boys. I was put in a girls school and later girls college. They visited my place of work before I joined to see that there are more women working there. Now coming to why I am seeking advice.
I started masturbating at the age of around 15 years. It was sheer unplanned and unknown thing. I was rubbing soap while having bath. My parents are very fussy for cleanliness. While I was rubbing soap on and around my vagina I felt strange pleasant sensation as if I was going to explode there. I rubbed more vigorously. I felt urge to put my finger in the vagina and I did so. I moved my finger in and out which made me feel very wet inside. This led to my having my first orgasm. I was shuddering and moaning. After that I masturbated regularly 3 to 4 times a week.
Coming to present, I have a girlfriend with whom I share all what I feel. I had told her about my masturbating to which she just laughed and said there is nothing abnormal as we all do it My parents let me visit her place and her to be at our place. Yesterday she came over to stay at our place for a couple of days as her parents had to go outstation but could not take her along. I have separate bedroom with a double bed. After dinner we both retired to my bedroom. Once inside, I latched the door which I always do. My parents wake me up by knocking the door. We both changed to nighties and lay down. I do not wear anything under that. She also did not. We were talking and sharing what were latest happenings. All this while she was rubbing me on my stomach. Then she moved her hand down to my pubic area and started massaging there. It felt pleasant. A little later she pulled my nighty up and started fingering my vagina and playing with my clitoris. I reached orgasm in no time. She then took of her nighty as well as mine. We were both naked. She lay next to my and continued fingering me and playing with my clitoris. After a while she got on top of me making me spread my legs wide. She started humping her vagina on mine. It felt so wild. I had more orgasms. She then turned around putting her mouth on my vagina and her vagina on my mouth. She stated licking my vaginal lips while at times putting her tongue inside. She sucked my clitoris making it hard. She asked me to do the same to her. At first I was little reluctant but later I started enjoying smell of her vagina. I found her very wet and her clitoris, which is little larger than mine, hard. It felt strangely pleasant to suck it. I lost count of times I must have had orgasms. She too seemed to have had many as I could feel her shuddering at times. We went to sleep after that.
Today morning I asked her does it make me a lesbian. She laughed and said that just one time does not make one homosexual. Then she said that her cousin, who is of our age, is visiting next week. She had earlier told me that she had sex with him a couple of years ago. She told that once her parents leave for work and she is alone with him, she would call me over. She would then ask him to make love to me so that I get over my apprehensions.
I want your advice to know if what happened with her was alright and should I have sex with her cousin? "
Please suggest what should I tell her. Thanks
