tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post7416255920678435515..comments2023-12-10T04:35:43.736-08:00Comments on Share Thoughts & Experiences: PLEASE DO NOT ACCEPT THISJackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comBlogger50125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-55908359443642746492011-11-27T09:38:59.630-08:002011-11-27T09:38:59.630-08:00PURBA :
Rightly said. It is a pity that even edu...PURBA : <br /><br />Rightly said. It is a pity that even educated parents do not realise this. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-27549089657236017562011-11-23T20:29:19.597-08:002011-11-23T20:29:19.597-08:00There are so many women like her - forced to put u...There are so many women like her - forced to put up with daily humiliation and torture just for the sake of society.<br /><br />The parents are equally guilty for forcing their daughter to take such an extreme step!Purbahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06345755953291104000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-78084607079490000852011-11-19T07:01:46.803-08:002011-11-19T07:01:46.803-08:00NEHA :
It is extremely sad. I can still not come ...NEHA :<br /><br />It is extremely sad. I can still not come to terms that she inspite of being a professionally qualified girl did this. The complaint has been lodged but that will not bring her back. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-26475690244071206162011-11-18T09:05:29.885-08:002011-11-18T09:05:29.885-08:00Such a sad tale. May her soul rest in peace. Yes, ...Such a sad tale. May her soul rest in peace. Yes, one must not take physical violence. And not only leave the person, but also file a complaint against him.Nehahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08986954472494568567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-41264387170894740822011-11-18T06:04:53.828-08:002011-11-18T06:04:53.828-08:00CATGIRL :
How I wish that she had confided this i...CATGIRL :<br /><br />How I wish that she had confided this in someone whom she trusted when she found her parents were not supportive. She was a professionally educated girl. Really sad it is. As I said her parents are to equally blame as her husband or in-laws. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-7641679903397337512011-11-17T22:18:23.846-08:002011-11-17T22:18:23.846-08:00it is really extremely disheartening to know dat.....it is really extremely disheartening to know dat.... i wish the girl had been stronger n asked for divorce nt hen lived away in a hostel or sumthing..i mean if u hav to kill urself u can opt for a lesser life..isn't dat??<br />but yeahh i blame her parents sooo soo much!!CATGIRL !!https://www.blogger.com/profile/11122375749792000864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-68990891452541130052011-11-17T04:54:59.490-08:002011-11-17T04:54:59.490-08:00RESTLESS :
It is so sad that inspite of educatio...RESTLESS : <br /><br />It is so sad that inspite of education some persons still have not come out of this evil. I really wish that girls do understand that though they need to make efforts to settle down in new environments but this does not at all mean that they should accept any such harassment. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-70681902408038458962011-11-17T03:48:31.622-08:002011-11-17T03:48:31.622-08:00Very sad to read this post. Indian girls are taug...Very sad to read this post. Indian girls are taught to be goody goody, even if they are suffering like hell, for the sake of their parents and society. <br /><br />The msg given at the end is appreciable.<br /><br />RESTLESSA Restless Mind With A Sensitive Heart!https://www.blogger.com/profile/15235186296193977056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-76013926620856404512011-11-15T00:31:06.539-08:002011-11-15T00:31:06.539-08:00SURUCHI :
I agree it is for the two to sort out ...SURUCHI : <br /><br />I agree it is for the two to sort out whatever be it but when it becomes beyond limits, intervention is must. And for that girl must not hide such horrendous facts from parents and if they are non-supportive then speak to someone whom she trusts. Take care<br /><br /><br />KANUPRIYA : <br /><br />Unfortunately girls even when professional qualified look up to their parents for backing. That is the way they are brought up. Sad. Parents too need to shed false sense of image in society.<br />Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-58121408627918684252011-11-14T11:14:14.449-08:002011-11-14T11:14:14.449-08:00So sorry to hear about this! And surprised that ev...So sorry to hear about this! And surprised that even in today's age despite giving good education etc to their daughters, parents are still skeptical of supporting their married daughters in times of such need! Yet another young life gone just like that... even if parents are not supporting, I think its high time women learn to break free... i know dependent women cant do so easily but what stops professionally qualified and strong women to say no to such abusive relationship.<br />Condolences to you and your family members :(Kanupriyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08277789753188466023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-38989354274926159942011-11-14T09:56:45.808-08:002011-11-14T09:56:45.808-08:00it is so sad and sadder the fact that some parents...it is so sad and sadder the fact that some parents take the ill treatment of their daughters at the in-laws' house lightly..also sad that many a times the girls can't really voice their problems for many parents are over sensitive!<br /><br />i myself often remained mum about any marital bafflement that i faced for i did not want my parents to be upset...but physical abuse and disrespect in a relationship is something that girls just should not suffer!Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-49505725355951338712011-11-14T02:14:14.537-08:002011-11-14T02:14:14.537-08:00PHILO :
True. If my bad luck parents do not give...PHILO : <br /><br />True. If my bad luck parents do not give required support then one must take someone elder whom she trusts into confidence. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-81129769476820140812011-11-13T08:19:21.450-08:002011-11-13T08:19:21.450-08:00Support is indeed required. Else women will never ...Support is indeed required. Else women will never be able to come up!PhilO♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/02754122680372548153noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-25696528252285218052011-11-11T06:18:57.989-08:002011-11-11T06:18:57.989-08:00SULAGNA :
I too wish the same. Hope a day comes ...SULAGNA : <br /><br />I too wish the same. Hope a day comes when this is reality. Take care<br /><br /><br />ELLEN : <br /><br />Whatever be it, there should be no compromise to dignity or self respect. No comment on previous post? Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-61854751457088880562011-11-11T03:58:47.766-08:002011-11-11T03:58:47.766-08:00When a person is up against one's own culture,...When a person is up against one's own culture, there is really nothing much one can do about it. Or on the other hand one can decide on two things..... submission (which apparently would please the elders) or defiance (which would entirely shock them to their social toes). Still a difficult situation whatever the choice may be.Ellenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05682310322367124297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-65012362013427875992011-11-11T03:36:37.959-08:002011-11-11T03:36:37.959-08:00ohh jack uncle this is such a sad reality...i so w...ohh jack uncle this is such a sad reality...i so wish all of girls have the courage to figth such atrocity and have parents who understand us more than they value their social statussulagna https://www.blogger.com/profile/00416533568207227630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-44669918788758159152011-11-10T08:19:22.078-08:002011-11-10T08:19:22.078-08:00MEERA :
It is so tragic and I feel sad that I di...MEERA : <br /><br />It is so tragic and I feel sad that I did not keep in touch with her thinking that let them settle down and my wife was in touch with her grandmother on regular basis. We surely need to see what can be done to remove this evil from society. Hope to see you often and also if you can do give your valuable views on some of my older posts. Take care<br /><br /><br />JYOTI : <br /><br />It is really so tragic. How I wish I had even a little inkling so that I could have done whatever was in my hands. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-12214495117269869762011-11-10T07:05:05.798-08:002011-11-10T07:05:05.798-08:00The thing which is tragic is that in many cases pp...The thing which is tragic is that in many cases ppl who r most close doesn't support :( <br />thatz wat make the victim more vulnerable to ideas like suicide. <br /><br />Instances like this(In India we have many) are darkest black spots. <br /><br />PS: Been away from blogosphere in past few days, hope u doing fine !!Jyoti Mishrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01794675170127168298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-65952006130226701802011-11-10T02:31:58.272-08:002011-11-10T02:31:58.272-08:00You are right- people would do anything to make a ...You are right- people would do anything to make a marriage work- including forcing their daughter to stay in a violent relationship. I am very sad for your niece..Meera Sundararajanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15584671517551652378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-807773440084328942011-11-09T23:25:04.988-08:002011-11-09T23:25:04.988-08:00HARMAN :
I also feel strongly that it was parent...HARMAN : <br /><br />I also feel strongly that it was parents who let her down very badly. Take care<br /><br /><br />C D : <br /><br />I agree that may we get wisdom to see that such incidents do not happen ever. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-30812513275571356202011-11-09T23:22:39.357-08:002011-11-09T23:22:39.357-08:00L2C :
Unfortunately such things still happen. We...L2C : <br /><br />Unfortunately such things still happen. We definitely need to raise awareness against such inhuman acts. Take care<br /><br /><br />GAYU : <br /><br />We can start with keeping our eyes & ears open and if we come to know of any domestic violence, physical or even mental, we should make right authorities aware. That could be a dedicated NGO or NCW. We could also be active participant of such organisations for seminar etc. Take care<br /><br /><br />PHILO : <br /><br />In my view physical violence by husband or in laws coupled with non supportive attitude of her parents which lead to this. We need to ensure that a girl gets full support against any kind of torture, physical or mental. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-8142631920805285222011-11-09T22:20:01.519-08:002011-11-09T22:20:01.519-08:00I appreciate your view so much. thanks for sharing...I appreciate your view so much. thanks for sharing this. May the soul rest in peace and may we living beings get wisdom.Celestial Dreamzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11665499902779022498noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-72876364966661100072011-11-09T11:12:06.511-08:002011-11-09T11:12:06.511-08:00very SAD...God bless her soul ...
its very sad on...very SAD...God bless her soul ... <br />its very sad on parents part ...not to support the kid!<br />SAY "NO" To Domestic Violencehamaarethoughts.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13355838190699373168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-1732947546742546862011-11-09T02:38:46.483-08:002011-11-09T02:38:46.483-08:00I'm so sorry to hear about the lady.. I'm ...I'm so sorry to hear about the lady.. I'm sure that what she underwent must have been very hard, or else she would not have taken such a step. <br />Indeed physical violence is something that no one should bear with. It's sad how people ill treat women. <br />Great post..PhilO♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/02754122680372548153noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-38272150018975979172011-11-08T21:15:32.902-08:002011-11-08T21:15:32.902-08:00How can we do this??? I feel really bad...and help...How can we do this??? I feel really bad...and helpless.Gayuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00304455860480027479noreply@blogger.com