tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post5495119955094301554..comments2023-12-10T04:35:43.736-08:00Comments on Share Thoughts & Experiences: SEEKING ATTENTION - PITFALLSJackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-59850015104813705702011-09-29T23:54:24.244-07:002011-09-29T23:54:24.244-07:00SURUCHI :
I agree every time it does not end wel...SURUCHI : <br /><br />I agree every time it does not end well. Take care<br /><br /><br />VIDDHI : <br /><br />Though I advocate equal rights for girls but I always also say that there is need for ensuring safe environments for them. They too have to apply their mind properly before taking any step which may lead to such situations. I do not blame Janki as she thought the boy during college time as well as her colleague loved her. Take care<br /><br /><br />NIDHI : <br /><br />No views on this? I have left my id in your space. Also have replied to your comment in post Age Catching Up. Take care<br /><br /><br />KOMAL : <br /><br />I feel satisfied if I can be of help to anyone. Please feel free to contact me, if you ever wish to. My id is in my profile. I agree we need to get over prejudices of caste, region, language, colour etc etc to live happily in this world. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-51456208784119025342011-09-29T22:22:14.037-07:002011-09-29T22:22:14.037-07:00First of all, I hope you're doing great. Thank...First of all, I hope you're doing great. Thank you for always coming around to my blog. Your comments always motivate me and direct me to the thinking-path. <br /><br />Coming to the post and it's context, I am sure there are many such people who undergo such series of events. I think we must not discriminate against anyone on the basis of their social status, religion, culture, etc. Then only people will be able to accept the differences more easily and gracefully.Komal Alihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18033176655613205881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-71485107668745746552011-09-29T20:34:56.793-07:002011-09-29T20:34:56.793-07:00Hey Jack. I was trying to email you but whenever I...Hey Jack. I was trying to email you but whenever I click on email on your user profile, it opens MS Outlook. Don't know how to use it. Can you like give me your email id manually. Thanks. :)Nidhi Mahajanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15491584747080497400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-10833531083445003582011-09-29T11:47:33.379-07:002011-09-29T11:47:33.379-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.viddhihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00017270187102833641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-65982802260173899582011-09-29T11:46:45.784-07:002011-09-29T11:46:45.784-07:00honestly. i find it scary !
being a girl it makes...honestly. i find it scary ! <br />being a girl it makes me feel vulnerable. but such instances happen . its a reality of our society .. which we should be ashamed of.viddhihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00017270187102833641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-55983337082190570662011-09-29T07:15:15.354-07:002011-09-29T07:15:15.354-07:00it's sad how life can completely go wrong when...it's sad how life can completely go wrong when all these girls wanted was just to make it go right!<br />:(<br /><br />it is not always "all is well that ends well"Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-37278200740401036022011-09-28T07:17:03.838-07:002011-09-28T07:17:03.838-07:00NEHA :
You had your head rightly placed on your ...NEHA : <br /><br />You had your head rightly placed on your shoulders. I am sure you will be of a big support to those who need it. Take care<br /><br /><br />HARMAN : <br /><br />Such happenings are more than what we would like to believe. Many girls in their late teen years get swept off their feet by gullible talks. They need to keep their wits about and judge a person with due care. Take care<br /><br /><br />PRAMODA :<br /><br />One needs to be careful not to get bowled over. Before taking such step one needs to judge person with due application of mind and not on just what appears. Take care<br /><br /><br />RUPREKHA : <br /><br />Welcome to my space. I am so happy that you found time to give your valuable views. Hope to have same often and on some of my previous posts too, if you get time to read those. I will visit you soon and catch up with your thinking. Hopefully we can establish contact and I can contribute something to worthy cause. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-45157222476578663092011-09-28T06:26:00.184-07:002011-09-28T06:26:00.184-07:00RIA :
We all make mistakes due to inexperience o...RIA : <br /><br />We all make mistakes due to inexperience or looking for some attention. I too hope so. Take care<br /><br /><br />NEEHA : <br /><br />I really admire her husband for his stand. We need more such young men who can make society a better place to be in. Take care<br /><br /><br />AMIGO : <br /><br />Nice of you to share this feeling. Take care<br /><br /><br />MANNU : <br /><br />Unfortunately we tend to ignore these happening either blaming the girl or saying it is not happening. We need to understand what are pitfalls of our actions. Left reply in my previous post where you left indepth views. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-33936641045023348932011-09-28T06:19:18.529-07:002011-09-28T06:19:18.529-07:00DREAMYGAL :
Welcome to my space. Yes, it does be...DREAMYGAL : <br /><br />Welcome to my space. Yes, it does because we behave like Ostriches burying our head in sand denying existence of any danger. One should not feel shy of own background and if need be make efforts for improvement without doing anything against own conscience. Hope to see your valuable views often. I will visit you soon. Take care<br /><br /><br /><br />UPASNA : <br /><br />Our whole life is a drama, isn't it? Some show happiness always while some find faults in everything what happens. I too feel glad that it ended in happy note. Take care<br /><br /><br />MISHI : <br /><br />When we are young we feel so confident that we can sort out anything but least realising that we lack experience of overall broad view. Sharing should also be with someone whom one can trust after due knowledge of person. Take care<br /><br /><br />SAKSHI : <br /><br />Don't we have many educated persons who fall prey to crooks? I too pray that no one should face this sort of experience. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-757406356041595342011-09-28T05:05:04.798-07:002011-09-28T05:05:04.798-07:00There are so many Jankis out there, who need to be...There are so many Jankis out there, who need to be educated not to fall prey to such complexes which leads to a trap of blackmail. Again, not all Jankis find support and a helping hand you have given, and an understanding husband. Thanks for sharing your experience, hope this post is read by more and more young girl.Ruprekhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02798091874208338723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-60822201308534949482011-09-27T18:08:33.674-07:002011-09-27T18:08:33.674-07:00Hi uncle,
good that u shared it here, this way we...Hi uncle,<br /><br />good that u shared it here, this way we get to know how much can be done with a girl!!<br /><br />one must be careful, in love, in everything... seeking attention to an extent is ok, but that shall not make anyone go blind!<br /><br />and i believe, in case of any such, husband shall be made aware immediately, keeping it at his back only makes him go calm or irritated, it kills the love either way..<br /><br />you did a good job once again..i admire you..Pramoda Medurihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04513152092118282205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-3655951870869598992011-09-27T14:00:53.229-07:002011-09-27T14:00:53.229-07:00its very scary..I cannot imagine going to that lev...its very scary..I cannot imagine going to that level one after another..<br />Its like loosing dignity..<br />But a stitch on time pays nine..A very ..well versed action and completed with accuracy..hats off ..we need more people like you!<br />Tchamaarethoughts.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13355838190699373168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-50094216780555222952011-09-27T04:06:19.200-07:002011-09-27T04:06:19.200-07:00That's scary. When I moved to Delhi, it was a ...That's scary. When I moved to Delhi, it was a big change for me, but thankfully, I have survived it all and did not succumb to any big-city pressures! It's been 8 years now and Delhi has become a home. Though I have seen girls go downhill too.Nehahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09356457383586939084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-76825502364290205442011-09-26T11:34:29.970-07:002011-09-26T11:34:29.970-07:00Gruesome story.! The first time i heard such story...Gruesome story.! The first time i heard such story of blackmail through photographs was in year 1994. I was 14 year old student, and i had read that in ToI newspaper, delhi edition.<br />I have also seen some tales of breakup closely, although not of blackmail.<br />Ur blog must enlighten some people.Manishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13707310788082472814noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-89504698539426335442011-09-26T08:59:45.449-07:002011-09-26T08:59:45.449-07:00Really sad..But good that its sorted out now...Really sad..But good that its sorted out now...Amigohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04670415006610103151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-5385761224629947492011-09-26T08:27:24.210-07:002011-09-26T08:27:24.210-07:00It's sad to hear that.
But need to agree with ...It's sad to hear that.<br />But need to agree with the fact that she is lucky to have such an understanding person as a husband.Neehahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17247446534255356437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-31614285556950043252011-09-26T07:03:45.386-07:002011-09-26T07:03:45.386-07:00Totally second Sakshi...its sad but ppl still take...Totally second Sakshi...its sad but ppl still take such decisions in life...Hope it doesnt happen to anyone.Riàhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00522045043501343739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-88402183970899760762011-09-26T05:07:21.102-07:002011-09-26T05:07:21.102-07:00It is amazing, that even though we are educated, w...It is amazing, that even though we are educated, we end up taking such stupid decisions!<br />I just pray that whatever happened to her, doesn't happen to anyone- EVER!Sakshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13560563322184558228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-48597594749073801892011-09-26T03:12:40.143-07:002011-09-26T03:12:40.143-07:00I wont say its filmy or something..this does happe...I wont say its filmy or something..this does happen in our society..girls get trapped and then blackmailed..I had a Friend who had something of this kind ..it was a horrible experience..and I tell you what makes things worse is women not sharing this with anyone around..you got to tell somebody close to you..this is the only way out or there is no end to that blackmailing...<br /><br />a very well written piece jack.,,thankz for reminding us all about the importance of sharing our troubles with the people around us:-)Mishilicious Mishihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17332239174643828420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-43063155035397227982011-09-26T02:00:41.385-07:002011-09-26T02:00:41.385-07:00unfortunately, while it seems dramatic, such incid...unfortunately, while it seems dramatic, such incidents are also very common! but i am glad it is sorted ...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02552591635144016691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-307704761097710742011-09-26T01:56:25.588-07:002011-09-26T01:56:25.588-07:00It sounds so filmy, but then its another bitter re...It sounds so filmy, but then its another bitter reality. Sometimes we are not aware how a small wrong trait of ours lands us into a big trouble. Good that you shared it, have learned to be extra cautious, though I am not having any complex regarding my background. In fact, its because of every back ground that shapes every person, for good :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com