tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post407112130016794071..comments2023-12-10T04:35:43.736-08:00Comments on Share Thoughts & Experiences: THINK BEFORE YOU LEAPJackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-26238346228063745202011-08-08T23:23:31.942-07:002011-08-08T23:23:31.942-07:00T M :
Thanks, I will try to. Take care
THINKI...T M :<br /><br />Thanks, I will try to. Take care<br /><br /><br />THINKING :<br /><br />I am glad you liked it. Take care<br /><br /><br />E T : <br /><br />Logic goes out of mind when one is blindly in love. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-2353369567868278832011-08-08T20:56:32.714-07:002011-08-08T20:56:32.714-07:00Very thought-provoking...
I'd say she was very...Very thought-provoking...<br />I'd say she was very lucky...<br />Fairy tale or not love is blind but you are not!Erratic Thoughtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14852558150033296079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-69431402106760762372011-08-07T12:50:57.504-07:002011-08-07T12:50:57.504-07:00hmm....nice post...hmm....nice post...Thinkinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12803582964869804576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-50207533017935807292011-07-31T09:00:51.899-07:002011-07-31T09:00:51.899-07:00SHRUTI :
My intention was to let girls realise t...SHRUTI : <br /><br />My intention was to let girls realise that they need to apply their mind fully before going in for physical intimacy. We should not put any embargo. I agree that mother is the best person but in her not being in the picture someone has to offer help. Best friend normally will be of same age, so thinking will not differ much. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-82040771127262894202011-07-30T23:33:20.491-07:002011-07-30T23:33:20.491-07:00Hey there! thanks for stopping by and for leaving ...Hey there! thanks for stopping by and for leaving lovely comments :)<br /><br />about the post.. I am glad Geeta got married to him and is happy. When youngsters read/hear advice on relationships and to be careful while deciding what extent they can go, they seem to have understood. but while dealing with it.. they don't think so much. As you rightly said, human emotions are uncontrollable. Some people get lucky and get married to the one they love.. I wish every relationship had a happy ending.<br /><br />Again.. talking about awareness, I believe mothers (and some times best friends) would be of great help when it comes advising their daughters. There can't be a better person.Shrutihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07500991110068526089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-30178969574495757522011-07-25T09:02:13.235-07:002011-07-25T09:02:13.235-07:00JIGYASA :
Thanks for such supportive views. Pare...JIGYASA : <br /><br />Thanks for such supportive views. Parents surely need to understand to be approachable by children to discuss their curiosities. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-72727132953286069052011-07-25T03:12:27.928-07:002011-07-25T03:12:27.928-07:00Very educating.....I hope more & more youngste...Very educating.....I hope more & more youngsters get to read this...also such things shall be used as case studies to educate the youth who just indulge in such things without applying mind on the consequences! <br /><br />Also this has to be told to the parents- to the shying away mothers who fail to understand the urgency of the issue. <br /><br />Gr8 post Uncle J.Jigyasahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09976238550212586391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-61871302187434061542011-07-23T02:28:25.546-07:002011-07-23T02:28:25.546-07:00SACH :
Thanks for making it more accessible to g...SACH : <br /><br />Thanks for making it more accessible to girls. I advocate girls be given same rights as boys but with more care for their safety without putting any restrictions. Let them take own decisions after full application of mind. This is result of combination of lack of proper education, society attitude and parents hesitation of being more approachable. Hope this situation improves. Take care<br /><br /><br />PRAMODA : <br /><br />It is not just education but as I said above society as well as parents to need to be more open and give right directions to youngsters. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-3529043737724653122011-07-23T01:14:37.476-07:002011-07-23T01:14:37.476-07:00Only educations and the right guidance makes peopl...Only educations and the right guidance makes people take good ecisions being humans and that even brings good gesture to the ongoing generations.. <br /><br />thoughtful post uncle..Pramoda Medurihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04513152092118282205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-79837811120493522572011-07-22T08:16:01.025-07:002011-07-22T08:16:01.025-07:00Lemme share it on FB so some girls can read it. I ...Lemme share it on FB so some girls can read it. I feel bad for few uneducated people I come across. I don't know who is to be blamed? Is it lack of the right education in school or the wrong attitude in our society or just the parents :|Sach1https://www.blogger.com/profile/08884212907067421895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-35203612654740252122011-07-22T05:47:38.072-07:002011-07-22T05:47:38.072-07:00PURBA :
Right you are but for that first thing i...PURBA : <br /><br />Right you are but for that first thing is that we develop confidence in them to share their thoughts with us. For that after certain age we got to be more of guide or mentor rather than dictator. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-27054500391669878222011-07-22T03:02:36.879-07:002011-07-22T03:02:36.879-07:00We have to learn to trust our children and make th...We have to learn to trust our children and make them understand that with freedom comes responsibility.Purbahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06345755953291104000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-48913510273507551342011-07-19T07:45:16.845-07:002011-07-19T07:45:16.845-07:00HUMAIRA :
As I had seen some of my friends suffe...HUMAIRA : <br /><br />As I had seen some of my friends suffer during our growing years and many youngsters later on due to non-availability of proper guidance, I feel it is my moral duty to share what life is about. Girls suffer more so due to gender discrimination. If someone is benefited it will give me immense satisfaction. Take care<br /><br /><br />TGAFA : <br /><br />Growing years are full of curiosities and opportunities to explore what is felt as mystery. So as you said unless there is some proper guidance it is very possible for a youngster to do something which may have adverse repercussions. Girls more so as they get carried away with emotions. Parents have this responsibility and in their absence it is some one who has well being of youngsters at heart. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-53115341386194096222011-07-19T05:30:03.754-07:002011-07-19T05:30:03.754-07:00As i was reading the post i could imagine a hundre...As i was reading the post i could imagine a hundred things that could have gone wrong for the girl. It was indeed lucky that the man was decent enough to stand by her and marry her and i am glad they are living happily...<br /><br />You really need to think a LOT before you leap. There are so many things that can go horribly wrong esp when the person is more or less a stranger to you. But when you are 16 or 18 you are not mature enough to realize the consequences.. Teenagers usually get so caught up in their emotions that they think they are right and that nothing can go wrong. This is where communication with parents comes in. I completely agree with you when you say that parents should be guides than dictators.Chandanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17306046117454371506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-20700821935429181972011-07-18T00:10:34.167-07:002011-07-18T00:10:34.167-07:00I really appreciate that you highlight hidden thin...I really appreciate that you highlight hidden things of our society and talk about them. This and a lot more of your topics should be shared. As we are living in the same society ; we cant turn a blind eye and we have to face this whole thing, yet save ourselves from any bad circumstances and later consequences. May god help us and guide us on the right path.<br /><br />Take Care and thanks for enlightening.Humaira Anwarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17571521447638784912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-78187405521628602642011-07-17T05:57:35.880-07:002011-07-17T05:57:35.880-07:00DISHITA :
I know that but I wanted to clarify tha...DISHITA :<br /><br />I know that but I wanted to clarify that cases are discussed so that others can understand and for proper follow up too. Privacy needs to be guarded. Take care<br /><br /><br />HARMAN : <br /><br />Parents need to build confidence in children to share whatever be it. They need to give up attitude of being dictator and be more open and approachable. It is not that an eye needs to be kept on girls but they need to understand and know what children, boys & girls, are upto. Girls do need special care but no curfew. Take care<br /><br /><br />SOLITAIRE : <br /><br />That is why I said Think Before You Leap. In the post also I have said that she was lucky but these days every girl is not that lucky. So it is upto girls to decide what do they want. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-41408508375385860022011-07-17T05:22:26.443-07:002011-07-17T05:22:26.443-07:00she was lucky that the man wanted to marry her. No...she was lucky that the man wanted to marry her. Nowadays things have drastically changed, glad that she's living happily :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02080615971396963687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-42872024047131248692011-07-15T13:41:18.088-07:002011-07-15T13:41:18.088-07:00..very educative and informative!
moms need to be .....very educative and informative!<br />moms need to be careful with girls and keep an eye!hamaarethoughts.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13355838190699373168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-11343388345729627262011-07-15T13:39:39.324-07:002011-07-15T13:39:39.324-07:00I was just curious. As i told i have nothing again...I was just curious. As i told i have nothing against you.Live2cherishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15826618983723239092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-11548830545581819072011-07-15T09:39:58.250-07:002011-07-15T09:39:58.250-07:00KAVITA :
Right you are. Open and regular communi...KAVITA : <br /><br />Right you are. Open and regular communication between parents and children is a must at growing stage or even after. I just try to do my bit to see that no harm comes to someone due to lack of knowledge. Take care<br /><br /><br />SAKSHI : <br /><br />I fully endorse your views on giving proper education on this issue as for want of this young impressionable youngsters, boys and girls both, fall pray to anti-social elements. In absence of such step it is parents who should do the needful but sadly they too feel shy to talk on this subject. Lesser said about our respected politicians better it is. <br />Take care<br /><br /><br />SURUCHI : <br /><br />I will not call it agony but it is just so that I have seen so many of such happenings. There have been very happy ones too, when some of the youngsters succeeded in achieving their goals after our discussions. Parents need to take initiative to be open and encourage children to have confidence in them to speak whatever is troubling them. Take care<br /><br /><br />OLD FOX : <br /><br />You have summed it up very nicely. Parents have a lot of responsibility to shape the child and they should not shy away from that. I am sure that you will do much more better than me as you have a lot of compassion in heart. May God be with you. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-30932293038980212732011-07-15T09:22:12.645-07:002011-07-15T09:22:12.645-07:00HARINI :
She was lucky but everyone is not so. H...HARINI : <br /><br />She was lucky but everyone is not so. Hope my writing this can benefit someone. Take care<br /><br /><br />MISHI : <br /><br />Your friend was lucky to have such supportive parents. So was this girl. But unfortunately everyone is not. So it is better to understand what is what and then decide. Take care<br /><br /><br />VIDDHI : <br /><br />I am grateful for your support. A girl must know what she is getting into and after due thought should decide. It is good to say NO if one is not keen and conscience does not allow. Take care<br /><br /><br />NEEHA : <br /><br />I am with you on this. Parents should not shy away from teaching their children facts of life as they are responsible if child suffers any harm. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-77659093762570646052011-07-15T09:14:41.831-07:002011-07-15T09:14:41.831-07:00ALKA :
I also hope so. It is true that we lack i...ALKA : <br /><br />I also hope so. It is true that we lack in sex education which negatively affects the child. Parents shy away from this issue. Take care<br /><br /><br />TANVI : <br /><br />I also hope that some sense prevails into those responsible for education to introduce this step by step as per age. Parents too need to be more open and encourage children to share their anxieties. I missed your views in my previous post. Take care<br /><br /><br />RIA : <br /><br />I too hope so. Take care<br /><br /><br />DISHITA : <br /><br />Prudence is definitely what is needed always. That is why I said to take decision after due application of mind. What we need is open attitude of parents to discuss all growing processes with children and proper sex education in schools as per age. Now on privacy, even professional do discuss cases in seminars or write in journals but keeping names secret. I write under pen name and change names as well as places of involved persons to ensure their identity is not comprised. Hope that is approved by you. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-47464205837309253132011-07-15T04:01:47.590-07:002011-07-15T04:01:47.590-07:00this girl is very very lucky as he truly loved her...this girl is very very lucky as he truly loved her...but there r a thousand more girls who suffer from exploring their own curiosity. the guy has fun while the girl 'lives' with the 'stain' all her life.<br /><br />good to know about how u guys helped, but she would still not be comfortable with whatever she had done.<br /><br />i guess knowledge has to be the key here. parents, especially mothers need to be in touch with their adolescent kids; not to keep a tag on them but just a friendly channel of communication where the kids can talk openly and thus express their new-found sexual urge. <br /><br />Uncle, every post of urs brings out one n only one thing - Parents have a vital role to play in the most vulnerable age of a child. Sadly, parents get so much involved in making money, to moving up the ladder and the usual self-centered acts.<br /><br />It high time somebody starts a 'parenting' school:)<br /><br />N God Bless u, Uncle...u inpire me.<br />i hope to have at least half ur helpful, enthusiastic spirit when i am ur age:)vinnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07002501707107783193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-80805335352493395862011-07-15T03:10:55.718-07:002011-07-15T03:10:55.718-07:00Just as all the fun seems to come my way...all the...Just as all the fun seems to come my way...all the agony seems to find you!<br />This is a common place scenario now and people are pretty aware of consequences...yes, even the young girls who are totally naive-awareness is the key and some girls are not lucky enough like the one you mentioned in the story.<br /><br />more times than not, we learn through our own experiences, good and bad and curiosity clouds reasoning!<br />we can only hope that kids confide in parents or someone sensible they can trust and guide them right!Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-12406199049928085282011-07-14T23:10:05.970-07:002011-07-14T23:10:05.970-07:00The need of the hour is- Proper Adolescent Educati...The need of the hour is- Proper Adolescent Education, a.k.a Sex Education, wherein the teenagers are not only taught to accept the changes in their body but also, how to deal with them.<br />Unfortunately, a lot of politicians in our country feel that, such kind of education will corrupt the minds of the children, not realising that with lack of information, the kids are more vulnerable to consequences that they have no idea about!Sakshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13560563322184558228noreply@blogger.com