tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post3958958235172949505..comments2023-12-10T04:35:43.736-08:00Comments on Share Thoughts & Experiences: WHY?Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-52167950007245422232009-03-26T22:33:00.000-07:002009-03-26T22:33:00.000-07:00Keshi,Thanks. You made my day. It is so nice to ha...Keshi,<BR/><BR/>Thanks. You made my day. It is so nice to have you back, my dear younglady.<BR/><BR/>I agree with you some parents are so busy in either making money or socialising. Children are at the mercy of nannies. So how can the values be inculcated?<BR/><BR/>Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-17469037679821930742009-03-26T19:41:00.000-07:002009-03-26T19:41:00.000-07:00Cos some parents dun care what their children go t...Cos some parents dun care what their children go through...they dun hv the time or the skills to talk abt such matters and sort them out.<BR/><BR/>Im bak Jack :)<BR/><BR/>Keshi.Keshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17147250771662427208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-25633297708351505072009-03-25T22:58:00.000-07:002009-03-25T22:58:00.000-07:00Vandita,Nice to see you here too. Thanks a lot for...Vandita,<BR/><BR/>Nice to see you here too. Thanks a lot for your supporting views. Let us hope things do change for better.<BR/><BR/>Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-24687211471275459732009-03-25T12:12:00.000-07:002009-03-25T12:12:00.000-07:00two very important issues and one that must be tal...two very important issues and one that must be talked about.<BR/>I know the fast paced lives today make it difficult to find time for family but incase of your parents and grandparents it always shd be a priority...<BR/>its very sad that he committed suicide but then ive always believed that nothing is worth ending ur life for.<BR/>Raggin, again as u said, it cant be and shdnt be totally done away with. And counseling for students from school onwards to deal with stress, pressure and depression is now becoming a necessity.IncorrigibleVhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01484955354089378277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-20326995770999657342009-03-25T02:49:00.000-07:002009-03-25T02:49:00.000-07:00Sonal,Thanks for your visit. I know you will make ...Sonal,<BR/><BR/>Thanks for your visit. I know you will make a very good family member. I feel this in my heart after reading your posts. Hope you have read my other posts too apart from this and previous one. I sincerely look forward to your views on those on relationship. <BR/><BR/>Most of my posts are in my other space<BR/><BR/>o3.indiatimes.com/niceguy251<BR/><BR/>It will be nice if you can pay visit there too.<BR/><BR/>Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-52265161450853822322009-03-25T01:55:00.000-07:002009-03-25T01:55:00.000-07:00aww...Jack this was too touching...!!My grandparen...aww...Jack this was too touching...!!<BR/>My grandparents also went thru all this....and it hurt me seen them alone...N disputes while they were no more n even after that ....!!<BR/><BR/>WTEVER U WROTE made me emotional...and yes...i'll always aim to b a wife who take care of his parents...cuz they ll b my family thereafter...CLUELESShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07818943684254806926noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-43306639977729189552009-03-23T23:21:00.000-07:002009-03-23T23:21:00.000-07:00Pavi,It is real pleasure that you could find time ...Pavi,<BR/><BR/>It is real pleasure that you could find time to visit me. Let me say that I totally agree with you that even boy has to treat wife's parents as own extended family and show same respect & affection as for own parents. I had stated this in reply to one of the comments in my o3.indiatimes.com space post. Here I have put forward the common practice in the society at present. <BR/><BR/>We need someone like I suggested in my post to keep a tab on the happenings and for counselling of youngsters in ragging issues.<BR/><BR/>I firmly believe that one who commits suicide is a coward who can not face the situation and does not care what legacy he or she leaves for near and dear ones. One needs to adjust to the circumstances.<BR/><BR/>Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-59013076461949670312009-03-23T12:01:00.000-07:002009-03-23T12:01:00.000-07:00The ragging thing is toooo crappy! Here is the thi...The ragging thing is toooo crappy! Here is the thing..Ragging as it started..to simply make the new-comers feel comfy and get acquainted with college mates and for the seniors to boss around a tad-bit n feel good was alrite…infact, was fun for ALL..that was the fashion in which I, myself was ragged. (tho I never got to rag my juniors)<BR/>But the extremes that some students have taken it to is disastrous. Its unfortunate that teenagers/adults (Over 15 yrs of age) do not know where to draw the line and feel no compassion towards fellow humans! <BR/> And cause some donno where to draw the line, there is a parent,sibling,grandparent,friend et etc..cribbing over the loss of a loved one!<BR/><BR/>N abt the parents spending time with children ..well I kinda agree wit sumthings u mention…but I’d like to ask why only the male perspective is written and not the female. YES…the gurl should look at the guy’s parents as a part of her (extended) family…BUT so should the guy? Rite? How come it never occurred to u to mention that? Mabbbe ‘coz all our mindsets are trained to look at some such stuff in a particular fashion n we can look no further?<BR/> N I u’stand our ‘child’ remains just that, ”our child” for all their lives, irrespective of age or anything. I even like the sound of it emotionally, but practically it doesn’t quite sound right. Parents MUST learn to let-go and treat their children according to their age..only then can a healthy and happy relationship be sustained. The need to love and be-loved in in all of us. I u’stand that. But do u agree that one can love their child n at the same time treat them according to their age? <BR/><BR/>Tho u have spoken about only 2 points in ur post…I’d like to express my view on one more point ….. Suicide. This is not a personal comment angst the person u’ve written about, I donno the man. But generally, I think people who commit suicide are the most selfish people and it’s the greatest act of cowardice! Running Away from a problem, leaving others to face it, is the easiest solution any1 can provide to any problem. Living thru it, is the challenge.Pavi!!!!https://www.blogger.com/profile/10798909986381885842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-91086055581664395132009-03-17T08:43:00.000-07:002009-03-17T08:43:00.000-07:00Ash,Thanks for your visit. You must have noticed t...Ash,<BR/><BR/>Thanks for your visit. You must have noticed that I mentioned that there is a fear of discontinueation of studies which makes victims keeping quiet. That is why I mentioned that we need to have someone who interacts with them in friendly parental manner to know what is going on so remedial actions can be taken. <BR/><BR/>Hope you have read some of my other posts too. <BR/><BR/>Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-85023663812278256042009-03-17T06:40:00.000-07:002009-03-17T06:40:00.000-07:00For some reason, dis always happens. The kids tell...For some reason, dis always happens. The kids tell their parents about their ragging but the parents ask them to just try and adjust. Even after so many cases, y cant the parents take a step when they are aware of whats going on?ash89https://www.blogger.com/profile/02864397594460445858noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-27130241140038975862009-03-16T23:40:00.000-07:002009-03-16T23:40:00.000-07:00NUPS : I feel happy that it has turned positive fo...NUPS : <BR/><BR/>I feel happy that it has turned positive for you after meeting him. Please do share his name and future plans. I wish you had let me know of your place, so if I could not come I could have at least sent message. Looking forward to your detailed views including on ragging. <BR/><BR/>Take care<BR/><BR/><BR/>HARSH : <BR/><BR/>Thanks for such detailed information on ragging. I have also suggested the need for someone not only in colleges,hostels but even in schools who has an approach more of a friendly parent than official to gain confidence of youngsters so they can confide in him or her. Your view about session with batch of freshers is in the right direction but it should be more in informal manner than official. This could be followed by individual sessions. Also interaction in the same way with seniors too could be considered and they be advised collectively as well as individually to ensure there is not unhealthy ragging. By unhealthy ragging I imply one which has physical abuse, sexual overtones or abuse and racial overtones. I will visit your website and also try to meet you.<BR/><BR/>Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-37639481640910995612009-03-16T06:41:00.000-07:002009-03-16T06:41:00.000-07:00hi jackm back.. its been two weeks of emotional hi...hi jack<BR/>m back.. its been two weeks of emotional highs n lows... u already knw the bad news.. the good news is tat i m kinda engaged .... the guy i was supposed to meet i finally did..and we felt great together :) <BR/>hey thanks for the thought abt Granpa.. the condolence was not in delhi so would have been tough for u ... <BR/>coming to the point or rather points u made... Jack the guy committed suicide.. yeah its very sad.. but u knw noone but he himself is to be blamed for it... i totally agree with u abt the son thing... will write in detail abt tat later... u knw jack we all have to finally follow our own paths in life... no one is there forever... its our soul journey and its beautiful this way.... easier said than done i knw.. but tats life!nupshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03170963937095841145noreply@blogger.com