tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post3800423010997386475..comments2023-12-10T04:35:43.736-08:00Comments on Share Thoughts & Experiences: AVOIDABLE, ISN'T IT?Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-78648195842556547862011-04-06T07:22:24.200-07:002011-04-06T07:22:24.200-07:00ARTEMISIA :
Welcome to my space. I agree with yo...ARTEMISIA : <br /><br />Welcome to my space. I agree with you that it is mentality but let us hope we can make a beginning to change it, starting with ourselves and trying to encourage those close to us. I pray that you should never have to give even a fleeting thought to such action. Take care<br /><br /><br />HARMAN : <br /><br />We definitely need to ensure that children have confidence in us to share what goes on in their mind - good or bad. Take care<br /><br /><br />RESTLESS : <br /><br />We need to change with times and have more faith in children provided we have been able to make them understand how to apply their mind and follow conscience. Example is the best way. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-73846235002211873102011-04-06T02:43:53.422-07:002011-04-06T02:43:53.422-07:00This was really shocking sad. And knowing someone ...This was really shocking sad. And knowing someone personally makes us even more sad.<br /><br />Times have changed that we must accept that premarital sex is a reality. <br /><br />I feel sad for her. may her soul RIP.<br /><br />RESTLESSA Restless Mind With A Sensitive Heart!https://www.blogger.com/profile/15235186296193977056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-78448220755094755422011-04-05T16:49:41.541-07:002011-04-05T16:49:41.541-07:00very sad!it could have been handled in a better wa...very sad!it could have been handled in a better way...and things could be simplified...I am not surprised by this behaviour of parents...but these kind of instances definitely needs awakening and a dire need to be mature handling of kids relationships!hamaarethoughts.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13355838190699373168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-3177466922316624772011-04-05T12:52:14.946-07:002011-04-05T12:52:14.946-07:00In a country like India, everything begins and end...In a country like India, everything begins and ends with mentality.<br /><br />I'm glad suicide has never been an option for me, even in my worst days.AD.https://www.blogger.com/profile/17352463728300761974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-19587647044340501342011-04-04T10:04:43.059-07:002011-04-04T10:04:43.059-07:00PURBA :
Welcome to my space. It is time that we r...PURBA :<br /><br />Welcome to my space. It is time that we realise to treat children with more openness and encourage them to share their apprehenssions without any hesitations. Hope to see you often. Do try to read some older posts and give your views. Take care<br /><br /><br />PRAMODA : <br /><br />You are right, parents and children should have mutual understanding and confidence. That can be developed with love and not rod. I am fine, how about you?<br /><br />Take care<br /><br /><br />NOOR : <br /><br />Thanks. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-38621830473257123082011-04-04T09:42:09.214-07:002011-04-04T09:42:09.214-07:00another great post :)another great post :)Noor-ul-Ain Hanifhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18338835165819141781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-56206244352086879082011-04-03T20:50:34.013-07:002011-04-03T20:50:34.013-07:00Hello Uncle,
@Instead of using rod we should deve...Hello Uncle,<br /><br />@Instead of using rod we should develop habit in them to sieve between right and wrong following their conscience.<br /><br />true!!<br /><br />Its just abt understanding between parents and children..and the confidence and belief they shown mutually on each other.. <br /><br />Shall be worked out well..:)<br /><br />Hope u r doing well:)Pramoda Medurihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04513152092118282205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-67626703989974325002011-04-03T19:56:06.890-07:002011-04-03T19:56:06.890-07:00Just because a girl gets intimate with a boy she i...Just because a girl gets intimate with a boy she is attracted to, she is made to feel so guilty that she is compelled to take her life!!!<br /><br />It's time parents let their children decide their rights and wrongs. This is the only way they will learn.<br /><br />May her soul rest in peace.Purbahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06345755953291104000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-41347981923741509282011-04-03T00:51:19.151-07:002011-04-03T00:51:19.151-07:00NIKITA :
Welcome to my space. Hope to see you of...NIKITA : <br /><br />Welcome to my space. Hope to see you often and have your views on my posts. I will be visiting you soon. Take care<br /><br /><br />ANN : <br /><br />Do keep this in your mind when you have children. Be strict but with proper reasoning and friendly way. Take care<br /><br /><br />ALKA : <br /><br />Yes, it is very disturbing. To control it not only parents but all who have interaction with youngsters must try to fathom what is needed, including teachers, other relatives or friends etc. Take care<br /><br /><br />RIA : <br /><br />Parents do need to analyse why child may be acting recluse or off normal. They should try to be of help for overcoming what bothers child than be terror in his or her mind. Take care<br /><br /><br />P : <br /><br />I am so glad to see you here. Thanks for such supportive comment. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-52928180095355750362011-04-03T00:44:29.446-07:002011-04-03T00:44:29.446-07:00JIGYASA :
You are right. I have seen children doi...JIGYASA :<br /><br />You are right. I have seen children doing forbidden things behind back of their parents as they did not have healthy rapport with them. I agree that there should be no difference in bringing up of boy or girl. <br />Take care<br /><br /><br />VINNIE : <br /><br />Parents do not come from outer world. We only become parents after growing up and forget what we wished as children, isn't it? Take care<br /><br /><br />SURUCHI : <br /><br />Any act may be considered right or wrong as per individual's thinking but if one follows conscience one would not go wrong. Parents need to be more open with children encouraging them to share their thoughts without fear. Take care<br /><br /><br />NEEHA : <br /><br />It is needed to cultivate sense of discipline in growing children but not with rod. Even 6 months old child can understand reasoning but may not be able to exercise proper choice when faced with a situation but that does not mean that we use only rod. Child should be encouraged to see difference between right and wrong. We need to set example too by our own behaviour. Take care<br /><br /><br />SACH : <br /><br />True, we need to inculcate this thinking in children that taking life is no escape but one must face odds and make efforts to win. For this we need to have good two way trusting relations. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-52226340504694248112011-04-01T12:56:32.884-07:002011-04-01T12:56:32.884-07:00Very sad incident and I totally agree with you abo...Very sad incident and I totally agree with you about parenting ways. Parents make or break a person.Phttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17600166917889802165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-37688788039835591872011-04-01T11:02:41.873-07:002011-04-01T11:02:41.873-07:00So true, its sad that such incidents happen....i h...So true, its sad that such incidents happen....i hope parents get to learn from others mistakes or it will be too late.Riàhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00522045043501343739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-63624811150126036092011-04-01T00:44:23.746-07:002011-04-01T00:44:23.746-07:00Its a very disturbing trend...lately every second ...Its a very disturbing trend...lately every second day we hear about children committing suicide.Scary that their innocent carefree minds can think of such a ghastly act...so much stress for little ones too...parents need parenting.Alka Gurhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12050387590729571321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-48003296917787611512011-04-01T00:21:25.296-07:002011-04-01T00:21:25.296-07:00I really fee sorry for suc people who commit suici...I really fee sorry for suc people who commit suicide but then they have their own reasons. Ya, parents must understand.. but nobody, actually cares.. When it comes to them , they behave typically..Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14885218484468782750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-3312215040628290782011-03-31T23:19:15.107-07:002011-03-31T23:19:15.107-07:00Its so nice to hear from you...
Glad to have foun...Its so nice to hear from you...<br /><br />Glad to have found you ,Uncle Jack..<br /><br />NikiThe Enchantresshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14224978469040589576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-18876003895247818522011-03-31T18:06:44.254-07:002011-03-31T18:06:44.254-07:00I totally agree that some parents do not even try ...I totally agree that some parents do not even try to understand but here particularly I would say that you cannot you cannot end your life for a any reason. If you can't fight in life; then yes you can not live in life.Sach1https://www.blogger.com/profile/08884212907067421895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-5148379801641655962011-03-31T11:58:33.348-07:002011-03-31T11:58:33.348-07:00I need to agree with you Jack.
Esp in India,in man...I need to agree with you Jack.<br />Esp in India,in many places I have been,parents always try to restrict their children(Ofc, that's 4 the child secure future) & there is no way of developing intimacy between parents & children.<br />So if some problem arises children first think about suicides & those stuff.<br />I read suruchi's post too,both of you had done a good work:)<br />Take CareNeehahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17247446534255356437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-62613527210420102482011-03-31T08:05:28.801-07:002011-03-31T08:05:28.801-07:00absolutely sad...there is no right or wrong as per...absolutely sad...there is no right or wrong as per one perception...there is always a right way and wrong way of doing things.<br /><br />also a right way of handling them...suicide is a very major step uncle J...we think children don't think about parents when they commit suicides on trivial matters, but no one tries to understand their psychology...and least perhaps, some of the parents!Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-62228953892922552772011-03-31T05:55:56.390-07:002011-03-31T05:55:56.390-07:00sick parenting...everybody teaches kids right n wr...sick parenting...everybody teaches kids right n wrong,etc, who will teach parents ???vinnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07002501707107783193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-64229548052563210102011-03-31T04:44:57.725-07:002011-03-31T04:44:57.725-07:00Absolutely Uncle J.....parents need to be the frie...Absolutely Uncle J.....parents need to be the friends in adolescence and that would surely make life simpler! And also....in our nation there is a dire need to have same standards & rules for a girl & a boy child in family!Jigyasahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09976238550212586391noreply@blogger.com