tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post2461477968124132643..comments2023-12-10T04:35:43.736-08:00Comments on Share Thoughts & Experiences: WHY?Jackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-65099053835145506872011-08-11T21:28:02.247-07:002011-08-11T21:28:02.247-07:00strange how people risk marriages for minor disput...strange how people risk marriages for minor disputes.Live2cherishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15826618983723239092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-65195233299637612842010-10-07T01:27:02.903-07:002010-10-07T01:27:02.903-07:00Uncle J,
Is there anyway that you can get in touc...Uncle J,<br /><br />Is there anyway that you can get in touch with Sheetal and explain....its a pity that they have such a lovely life waiting for them & they just can acknowledge!Jigyasahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09976238550212586391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-30252298684224507352010-08-13T07:06:33.631-07:002010-08-13T07:06:33.631-07:00B S :
On the face of it that is what it looks li...B S : <br /><br />On the face of it that is what it looks like. Sheetal has not shared her feelings and it seems that her mother is interfering little more than necessary. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-25719769937161827392010-08-13T00:59:19.888-07:002010-08-13T00:59:19.888-07:00there is no concrete reason of sheetal's beha...there is no concrete reason of sheetal's behaviour.......y she behaved lik this?????<br /><br />mother in law stayin with them is such a big issue kya???BROKEN STAR (bck agn)https://www.blogger.com/profile/05563975212903403282noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-4430138540560679722010-08-08T02:26:15.127-07:002010-08-08T02:26:15.127-07:00DIPTI :
The role of mother and wife are two diff...DIPTI : <br /><br />The role of mother and wife are two different aspects in a man's life. Mother has to let go of her son so his wife can take care of his needs. She should guide the girl about it. At the same time an intelligent girl would keep his mother on her side and learn from her ways to his heart. That will ensure happiness all around. And girl's parents should not interfere unless it is life or death situation. Take care<br /><br /><br />SURUCHI : <br /><br />You have given true picture of the situation. His mother is very supportive. Fortunately things got sorted out. Take care<br /><br /><br />C B : <br /><br />Visited yous space but you have not yet posted anything. Post marriage the couple has to be give space to adjust. It is only when you are living 7 X 24 that you really come to know someone even if you have been in relationship for years. Both of them have to make efforts to know each other and adjust. There should be no EGO or one upmanship. Parents from both sides should refrain from interference. Girl may have to move to a joint family or even just his parents living with them as per situation. She has to realise that this is her family not and make her place with love. Please read my reply to Dipti above about it. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-81126911545637081002010-08-07T21:15:07.245-07:002010-08-07T21:15:07.245-07:00With relation to my previous comment, I would also...With relation to my previous comment, I would also like to add that parents should try to stay away from their children after their marriage, especially when they are a major source of discomfort in their children's lives. Marriages were more successful earlier because parents, once they send away their children, were taken to believe that husbands were the sole partner. Marriages are getting more and more complicated day by day and parental interference is one of the prime causes. Parents should be a good advisor to solve issues, like the best friend and create harmony in their relationship.Cherry Blossomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10757743868703355797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-13781381348077355692010-08-06T04:28:33.810-07:002010-08-06T04:28:33.810-07:00Omg...a bad environment at home can have such terr...Omg...a bad environment at home can have such terrible repercussions...<br />I hope they sort things out or Rajat takes a strong stand to set things right before his life is messed up beyond repair being sandwiched between the two women!<br /><br />As usual...an interesting reflection of the harsh realities of the society. Uncle Jack!:-)<br />Thanks for sharing!Suruchihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08352785820589232058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-74090024922191086982010-08-06T01:14:13.876-07:002010-08-06T01:14:13.876-07:00oh yeah, they need to sit and talk about everythin...oh yeah, they need to sit and talk about everything that is on everyone's mind, one by one. calmly!<br /><br />specially the wife. i don't think Rajat's mom is at fault...she hardly interferes also right? and if everyone's living in the same house, there's bound to be some curiosity somewhere... misjudged as 'interference' by the daughter in law...<br /><br />no girl should ever come between a mother and her son. <br />poor guy, i feel bad for Rajat. Hope he gets his peace of mind back.Killer Dramahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12113450179132793413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-71191090222748524382010-08-05T22:08:46.149-07:002010-08-05T22:08:46.149-07:00RAJ :
It is sadly true. I think pre-marriage cou...RAJ : <br /><br />It is sadly true. I think pre-marriage counselling is a must to let both partners know that they both need to change mindset and adjust. Take care<br /><br /><br />ROHINI : <br /><br />You are right. Both of them need to go for counselling. And her mother also. Take care<br /><br /><br />SAKSHI : <br /><br />It is so good of you go give such a wise and practical suggestion. As I said to Rohini above both of them as well as her mother need to go for counselling. Take care<br /><br /><br />KOMAL : <br /><br />A person with sane and balanced mind will surely understand the situation and suggest same what Sakshi has. Take care<br /><br /><br />S G : <br /><br />As I have said above they both as well as her mother need to go for counselling. Also it is helpful to go for pre-marriage counselling too as it makes both understand what is needed to make marriage a success. Take care<br /><br /><br />In S O :<br /><br />Relax. It is not what happens in every marriage. For 1 bad marriage there are 9 good ones too. It depends on both partners as well as support by parents of both sides. Counselling, pre-marriage and if needed post-marriage too can make partners understand how their roles can affect success of a marriage. Take care<br /><br /><br />C B : <br /><br />Welcome to my space. You are absolutely right, it is responsibility of both husband and wife to make a marriage work. If one of them becomes adamant or egoist there is bound to be trouble. Looking for your views on my older posts also. Take careJackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896075408610203350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-4631305694125446762010-08-05T20:55:08.243-07:002010-08-05T20:55:08.243-07:00Women are the inevitable source of joy in a succes...Women are the inevitable source of joy in a successful marriage. With this understanding,a woman should realize that a sudden fit of whimsicality can shatter a relationship in a family. Responsibility lies on both husband and wife. A wife can be an ideal Home Maker if she is practical and reasonable. On the contrary, she can be a Home Breaker if she blindly follows her heart, and not her mind. Mental poise can either be innate, or practised. Only a little bit of Patience can create wonders. Wish the couple a quick resolution...Cherry Blossomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10757743868703355797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-11451871507052257602010-08-05T14:51:44.038-07:002010-08-05T14:51:44.038-07:00kind of scary for unmarried guys like me.....i fee...kind of scary for unmarried guys like me.....i feel helpless coz sme women just dont change or listen and seems this is just 1 situation whr the female wants to say either its my way or highway kind of a thing.....no communication works....and to change sme1's attitude is 1 of the most hardest thing in life.....i think the story wud have been different he wud have ran away n got married to the gal he loved....i guess it again comes to the choices u make or if he wud have selected a wife himself thn his mother doin the same for him....neways ppl do mistakes n the wise one comes out of thm...let rajat find a way out n if stayin in jail for a week helps....if thr is ne scope his wife(if she is human) will changein search of ......https://www.blogger.com/profile/13496189293146083451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-36068814367262517362010-08-05T12:51:30.194-07:002010-08-05T12:51:30.194-07:00Completly agree to what sakshi suggested!
I hope t...Completly agree to what sakshi suggested!<br />I hope they find some path within...I wish today's couples understood the sanctity of marriage in sense of it worth....but nevertheless con selling can resolve because there has to be reason for the wife's behavior...something ought to be disturbing her!Lady Whispershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15051384418188753857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-60138701203511060442010-08-05T10:16:17.970-07:002010-08-05T10:16:17.970-07:00Sad state of affairs, indeed.
I completely agree w...Sad state of affairs, indeed.<br />I completely agree with Sakshi. She has put words to my thoughts.Komal Alihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18033176655613205881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-50469057069875323952010-08-05T10:10:01.081-07:002010-08-05T10:10:01.081-07:00As a lawyer, I would say, that things would work o...As a lawyer, I would say, that things would work out. A couple of thousand rupees to the cyclist, and he will be off the hook.<br /><br />Now, as the girl who knows the reason behind this incident, then, well, the poor guy is in trouble. His wife is being MEAN.. really mean. but then I also believe that there has to be some sorta of a reason behind the unreasonable behaviour of the wife.<br />So, these guys should talk. Really talk about what is the trigger.<br /><br />And on a personal note, Mothers who interfere in their daughters lives after marriage are playing with the lives of two people bound to each other through matrimony.They should be so wary of it. <br />All the best to them.Sakshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13560563322184558228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-41117026627423761012010-08-05T09:38:36.527-07:002010-08-05T09:38:36.527-07:00i hope everything gets settled asap....Rajat is in...i hope everything gets settled asap....Rajat is in distracted state of mind...and if the prob persists or exceeds between the husband and wife...i would recommend couselling...that helps...surerohinihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06810390356291306484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3127390194074352877.post-75044818016560904382010-08-05T07:17:24.957-07:002010-08-05T07:17:24.957-07:00its a pity. people don't realize that marriage...its a pity. people don't realize that marriage isn't just paper.Rajhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14521949812576502731noreply@blogger.com